Cadie or Sallie?

ABC, how I hate to love you.

First you bring Callica to us fans of Grey's but then you snatch it away just as fast, without as much as an explanation. Then you break Callie's nose (first scaring the SHIT outta all of us with the scene at the beginning without any context). Now, you are making us happy once again.

Enter Sadie. Rumors had it you guys had straightened her up, but this week's ep makes it look like you just might have realized what fools you were getting rid of Erica. Callie and Sadie. While you've already done it (Callie with an intern), it makes sense considering all the residents and attendings (with the exception of Bailey) are hooking up with an intern at least once.

Now, I may be disgracing some lesbians by saying this, but, the best part of the whole Callie/Sadie storyline this week? Callie and Mark. Yep, the two of them being best buds talking about sex and which interns are hot? Oh yea. I love it.

ABC, keep it up! (Although, the whole Izzie and Denny thing? Weird!)

Callica No More

I love Grey's Anatomy, I really do, but the only reason why I first started watching, were the rumors that Callie (Sara Ramirez) and Erica (Brooke Smith) were gonna hook up. Now, Erica is gone ... and didn't even say good bye.

Before I get into my reaction and opinion, I wanted to point you all toward Dorothy Surrender's latest post about the whole situation here. She is so much better with words (and yes I stole the above picture, but damn Brooke Smith looks hot in it) and so I figured, instead of attempting to write something clever and powerful, I'd let her say it (and push more people toward reading her blog, because basically, its awesome).

Now, I watched it, prepared to completely yell at the screen because the idiots at ABC thought having Erica leave would be a good idea, BUT, and as much as I hate to say this, they at least gave Brooke a chance at doing some awesome acting. She was breaking my heart throughout the whole episode. She seemed more emotional over the whole Denny thing than Izzie did (which could be just because Katherine Heigel doesn't care anymore, but whatever).

There was one thing that REALLY pissed me off. At the end, when Erica and Callie were fighting, Erica says something about Callie not being able to be sort of a lesbian. I was rooting for the writers all throughout this, but that was over the line. Yes, having Callie sleep with Mark wasn't right either, but I could understand what they were trying to do. This, I don't see the point in having Erica being that big a bitch to Callie. Also, and as many viewers have pointed out, Callie never said she was a lesbian, NEVER. As a matter of fact, the whole storyline of Callie sleeping with Mark, I believe, was to make it obvious that she was bisexual, not lesbian, because of course, bisexuality is always a phase on television and never lasts long.

I really wanted the Callica story line to work out. I was reading so many good things about, Shonda Rhimes, Sara, and Brooke all talking to people from GLAAD. If only the ABC executives had talked to someone from GLAAD. The reasons they give for firing Brooke are horrible and unacceptable. I'll admit, before the relationship with Callie (and still a little bit when she interacts with Grey's group) I did not like Erica Hahn. Since she has been with Callie, even just as friends, she has become a much more likable person.

Anyway, check out Dorothy Surrenders post, she included a link to a campaign to get Erica back by sending in ... leaves.

End of the Weekend Wednesday Hottie

So, after watching House this week, and then especially after seeing the previews for next week (which I will talk about later) I really wanted to make Olivia Wilde my Wednesday Hottie ... again, but I decided that wouldn't be very fair to all the other hotties out there.

So, this week, Hottie #1 (I will post two since I skipped last week and am late this week, yet again) is the beautiful Sara Ramirez from Grey's Anatomy.

Sara (pronounced Sa-da) is just awesome. She's a great actress and she can SING. She seems to have always supported the LGBT community in many forms. For those of you who don't know who she is, and haven't read any of my older posts from when I first became obsessed with Grey's, she is Callie Torres, ex-wife of lovable George (played by out actor T.R. Knight), and currently involved with fellow female doctor, Erica Hahn (Brooke Smith).

This week's episode was hilarious and Sara was just totally adorable. Her two conversations with Bailey and then the last scene with Erica, loved them.

"It's mysterious and dark and there should be rules...oh, and an embassy...and a safe word."

"Maybe second base too."

:0) I LOVE CALLICA but especially Sara.

Here's Sara singing (I may have posted this before)

Coming back again ... hopefully

So, soon all the new shows will premiere, and all our old faves will return. It's that time of the year again. My good friend Kat gave me the idea of doing a recap of sort of my favorite lesbian couples from last season. I then decided to stretch it out a couple days and do more than just last season, but those will start coming on Thursday. Now, here are my top favorite lesbian couples from last season.


Looking at old posts, I'm sure you all can guess one of my faves. While Callie and Erica didn't officially become a couple at all last season, the last several episodes hinted at it coming. So, without further ado, here's the kiss between Callie and Erica on the season finale of Grey's Anatomy.



Callie has been on the show since the middle of season one, when all of a sudden she was everywhere. She quickly became on of the main characters as she developed a relationship with one of the interns, George. Erica made a couple cameos early on but did not become a regular until after Preston Burke left (I'm sure many of you remember the whole Isiah Washington calling T.R. Knight a fag). These two characters became friends and Callie and George broke up after George had an affair with Izzy. Callie never even considered Erica has more than a friend until Addison came back for one episode and said something to her. Callie than started sleeping with McSteamy, and well, the rest you saw in the video.


There weren't that many lesbian couples on network television last season (if any other than Callica). So, we're moving on to cable. There were several different couples on The L Word, as there usually are, and its actually kind of hard for me to choose just one. Bette and Tina got back together, although, unlike a lot of people, I loved Bette and Jodi. Jenny seemed to have a good relationship until the end, even Shane had a good thing going for her, until Molly's mom decided to mess with Shane's head (btw, what is it with Shane and art shows? She keeps getting her heart broken at them). I, this time like a lot of people, LOVED Alice and Tasha. Alice has always been one of my faves (became my fave after Dana died) and it was good to see her happy. PS, I am trying to keep this clean, so you'll have to go to youtube to see more provocative scenes. This video does have several parts to it.



Alice and Tasha's relationship began during the fourth season. Tasha, a solider in the Army Reserves, was a friend of Papi's. The two met and sparks flew. In the fifth season, Tasha is kicked out of the army for being gay. At first she was fighting the system, but after seeing Alice get grilled, decided the Army was not worth hiding her life. As the fifth season ended, it looked as though Alice was contemplating having an affair.


The third couple is Spashley or for those of you who have no clue what that means, Spencer and Ashley from South of Nowhere. In season 3A, Spencer and Ashley's relationship was pretty rocky, but at the end, it seemed like things were getting good again. Spashley is probably one of the youngest lesbian couples on television, both girls were in high school when they started dating.

Warning, this video contains some scenes from Season 3B, which has not aired in the US yet. The "spoiler" scenes are clearly marked.


Spencer and Ashley started out as just friends in Season one, but by the end of the season, they were falling in bed together (literally). Season two opened up the morning after one ended, and hinted that the two had sex. One of the most emotional episodes of SoN happened during season two, when Spencer's mother, Paula, walked in on Spencer and Ashley about to have sex. The rest of the season seemed to focus more on Paula's refusal to accept Spencer and Ashley. While Spencer and Ashley went to prom together, at the end it did not look like they were survive as a couple much longer. Season three opened, Spencer's brother was dead, Aiden had been shot, and Ashley was leaving LA. When she came back, Spashley as over and Ashley was dating Aiden. Spencer ended up dating another girl, Carmen, but netiher of those relationships lasted through the first half of season 3. 3A ended with Spencer, standing naked in Ashley's door.


So, while these were my fave lesbian couples from last season, there weren't many others. Like I said, I only wanted to include one from The L Word, so there's a few couples left out, but there just weren't that many on television. If you remember more, please, comment and let me know.

I Promise It Won't Last Forever

So, as I'm sure everyone has figured out, I am obsessed with Grey's Anatomy. It all started out after reading an article about the Erica Hahn/Callie kiss that happened in the final two episodes of season four. I then went back to season one and started watching all the episodes. I am currently watching the second half of season three. I have now decided, hopefully for something that will help stop this obsession, to post a running list of some of my favorite lines from the show.

Cristina: [about Alex] If I stuck this fork into his thigh, would I get in trouble?
Meredith: Not if you make it look like an accident.
- If Tomorrow Never Comes (#1.6)

Dr. Addison Shepherd: Goodmorning... Richard, I like the hat.
Dr. Derek Shepherd: Satan speaks.
Dr. Addison Shepherd: Actually I prefer to be called 'Ruler of All That is Evil', but I WILL answer to Satan...
- Make Me Lose Control (#2.3)

{Watching a pornographic video]
Cristina: That does NOT look comfortable.
Meredith: Trust me, it's not.

Meredith: So pick me. Choose me. Love me.
- Bring the Pain (#2.5)

Meredith: Ow! Ow! Ow! Ow!
Izzie: What are you doing?
Meredith: I am trying to insert my banana bag, which sounds vaguely dirty, but it isn't.
- Band-Aid Covers the Bullet Hole (#2.20)

Addison: Did you hear about the slutty sex your slutty friend had with my super slutty husband?

Addison: I am desirable Amanda.
Bailey: Miranda.
Addison: Right.
- I Am a Tree (#3.2)

George: Ok, let's get you prepped and ready-Dr. Shepard. Dr. Finn.
Meredith: Now all my boys are here. You're all so handsome... and such good kissers.
George: Oh... God...
Finn: Excuse me?
George: She's on drugs.
Meredith: He's an excellent kisser.
Finn: You two dated?
McDreamy: You didn't know?
Meredith: It wasn't a date so much as a... disastrously... uncomfortable... sexual experience.
- What I Am (#3.4)

Izzie: Dude, she (Callie) went all cage fighter on you!
Meredith: I know!
- From a Whisper to a Scream (#3.9)

Callie: We're working, George. I'm your boss, alright?
George: Yes, a very sexy one.
- Walk on Water (#3.15)

Addison: I am being stalked by pregnant women.
Callie: You're an obstetrician.
- Testing 1-2-3 (#3.24)

Meredith (repeatedly): Seriously?

Callie: Did anyone ever think you two were a couple?
Meredith: No, because we screw boys like whores on tequila.
Cristina: Then we either try to marry them or drown ourselves.
Callie: Huh.

Grey's Obsession

So, I've recently become obsessed with Grey's Anatomy, the show, fanfic, and fanvids, basically anything revolving around Grey's.

I recently read some Grey's fanfic wih a couple different couplings and here are some videos dedicated to them (none of the videos belong to me):

The real couple, Callie and Erica, otherwise known as Callica
Quick note on Callica videos, while Kate Perry's song, "I Kissed a Girl" may seem like a good choice, if you actually listen to the lyrics, its about kissing a girl, while drunk, to make a boyfriend jealous. A better song would be Jill Sobule's "I Kissed a Girl." The lyrics fit a little bit better


Callie and Addison, or Caddy


Addison and Izzie


I just liked this video because of the song and how the clips were put together:

Grey's Anatomy

Before you read this post, be warned, MARJOR SPOILERS are ahead. If you missed the season finale of Grey's Anatomy (and you don't want to know anything before you actually see it) than stop reading now.




Okay, I never watched this show before yesterday when I watched the past four episodes online. Now, I have a new favorite show. Grey's Anatomy is now one of the few shows with a gay major character ... and not only does it have one, but it actually has two female leads who are gay. Better yet, McSteamy actually told one of them to go for it. I love this show now.

I will admit, the only reason why I watched the episodes I watched was to see the buzz about Callie Torres and Erica Hahn and boy was I surprised. I did not think anyhing would happen, even after the kiss last week in the elevator with McSteamy.

But I was thankfully wrong. Near the end of tonight's season finale (as almost everyone was kissing someone else) Callie walked up to Erica and tried to ask her out. The blonde doctor wasn't really listening, so Callie decided actions spoke louder than words, and just kissed the good doctor.

WAY TO GO CALLIE! The kiss was actually shown for a decent amount of time, probably not as much as the heterosexual kisses, but it did get more time than the much anticipated Derek/Meredith kiss. (I will admit, the whole blue plan in candles, was AMAZING, and I was in tears when the girl woke up)

Callie Torres is played by Sara Ramirez. Erica Hahn is played by Brooke Smith.

I'll try to write more later, like a recap or something, but I'm a little too tired now. I'll just include a video of the lead up to the kiss, and the first part of the kiss.